Susan MacKenty Brady shares valuable insights in Forbes

By Susan MacKenty Brady on May 5, 2015

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Linkage consultants often comment on relevant stories in the business press, here on the blog. So we are particularly proud and excited to be quoting our own Susan MacKenty Brady in an article she co-authored with Forbes contributor Dorie Clark. For those of you who are familiar with some of Susan’s work, the topic—coaching your inner critic—will come as no surprise. But as you’ll see in the Forbes piece quoted below, her explanation of the problem—and what to do about it—is more personal, more powerful, and more valuable than ever.

“She crossed her arms, leaned back, forced a smile and rolled her eyes. In a recent meeting of Susan’s, it was clear the other party didn’t agree and was offended by what Susan had just said. Just witnessing what seems like someone’s judgment of us can put our inner critic on high alert. It can also set off an extremely unproductive inner dialogue: ‘Seriously? She thinks she knows more about this issue than I do?’ Of course, that only makes things worse, as you feel more critical of the other person and yourself. The Inner Critic can be subtle and blatant, whispering yet loud. But once you become aware of it, you’ll see just how swift, harsh, righteous and at times toxic these voices can be.

“This is because our Inner Critic is fueled by the simultaneous belief that we are better than others and that we are less than others; both feelings are energized by harshness and contempt. Feeling that we’re not enough–especially at work—is painful. And while feeling superior to others can feel good on the surface, it leads to a damaging loss of loyalty in relationships. It limits our ability to learn and grow. It also skews our ability to make sound decisions, puts the people we work with on guard and erodes engagement, trust and honesty. You don’t need to be a leadership guru to see that those are not qualities high performing leaders usually exhibit. Here are three steps you can take to disarm the Inner Critic and its troubling consequences…”

Continue reading.

We all have an inner critic. How do you coach yours? Please share your thoughts with us below.

And if you’d like to learn more about coaching your inner critic, check out Susan’s new book.

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About Susan MacKenty Brady

Susan MacKenty Brady is Executive Vice President of Global Program Strategy & Development at Linkage. She is responsible for guiding the global growth and development of Linkage’s signature immersion learning institutes, as well as public and virtual programming. Now in its 18th year, she also serves as the co-chair of Linkage's Women in Leadership Institute, which boasts a network of over 8,000 alumni worldwide. Susan's personal mission is to help leaders step in to lead their best life, and in support of that mission, she authored The 30 Second Guide to Coaching Your Inner Critic.

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